2 July 2008 – Wednesday

I slept pretty well but woke up a little early. After trying to go back to sleep I got up and went to Roth’s to get fresh pastries for everyone. The mornings are perfect here with a crispness in the air that reminds me of spring and fall in Utah.

During the morning I took William for a walk. He seems to love to walk and explore. At one point he stopped to play and when I said for him to come on, he did not want to. So I told him ‘goodbye’ and started to walk away figuring he would get worried and follow me. Instead he said ‘goodbye’ and started walking in the opposite direction. So he called my bluff and made me go back to get him. Once I got him turned he did not give me any trouble and was happy to walk with me back to the house.

When we got back I laid down and took a short nap. I woke in time to drive with Tom up to Southern Washington to get some things Shauna needed for work that they did not have time to order because of the short 4th of July week. It was a nice drive and we talked about a number of things. We stopped at Roarkes on the way home and had hot-dogs.

Mary and I went plant shopping. I had promised myself that all I was going to get was some mallow plants, but of course that is not what happened. We ended up with three plants from Al’s – one was a different mallow – and then a number of things from another nursery including a nice hanging basket for only $15. Now we just have to get them home without destroying them, plant them and hope they survive our next mission.

Tonight was the girl’s night out – Shauna, Mary, Taylor and Kelli went to Salem to see a movie while Tom, William and I stayed home. We did not do much – mainly sat around and read. William watched TV and rode his trike. When the ladies arrived home they said they had a great time and the movie was great.

01 July 2008 – Tuesday

I slept like a rock – the new guest room is dark and quiet. I was surprised to see I slept until 6:30 (7:30 Utah time.) I got up and went to Silverton to get fresh pastries and the newspapers. It is kind of a morning ritual for me to do this.

When I got back I found I was tired and soon found myself going back to bed and sleeping for another couple of hours. I guess the driving really tired me out. Both Mary and I have spent much of our time reading – it is great to just relax.

William is the king of the hill – he loves cars, his tricycle, and running around. He is very good natured and easy to get to smile. He got a large splinter in his foot and so Shauna took it out with a needle while Tom and I held him still. He of course yelled and cried but almost the second we were done he stopped and started smiling again.

About 1:00 Mary and I went into Salem to get some lunch and to pick up a banner for Shauna that will be used in the big 4th of July parade. It was for the Grand Marshal. We had lunch at a place we found some 4 years ago and liked. The food this time was OK but not outstanding – at least my food was that way. Mary really liked her’s. After eating we went to the Wild Bird shop and looked at the latest outdoor art objects. We will probably go back and buy something before we go home. I told Mary we could not buy any more indoor art because we have no room. But we can buy outdoor art because we have lots of room there.

I should mention the huge field of California poppies that we saw on our way into Salem. I took a picture but I am sure it does not start to show how magnificent it really is. I want to go back and take a couple of more shots before we head home.

We ordered in Chinese for dinner. Of course Tom had hot dogs because he does not do Chinese. I only ate a small serving because I was still full from lunch.

It was a good, relaxing day for us and it does not seem like it could possibly be almost 2 years since we were here last. Both Mary and I have been spending much of our time reading some of the many books we missed while we were gone. Lucky for us Tom buys almost exactly the same authors that we like the most so we have lots of reading to catch up on.

30 June 2008 – Monday

I was up at 3:30 but Mary was up earlier because she did not sleep well. We were on the road by 4:06 and picked Taylor up at about 4:40. Taylor and Bob were dressed and sleeping on the couches in their living room and when I knocked on the door Bob sprang up like a Jack-in-the-Box.

The trip to Oregon was uneventful with full stops for breakfast and lunch it took about 13 ½ hours for the 850 mile trip. The weather was nice and the traffic was light except in Eastern Oregon where there was an unusually high amount of traffic that often kept both lanes slow.

It was nice to get to Tom and Shauna’s house and see them, Kelli and William. Tom has done a lot while we were gone – both in the house and in the office. He has become very talented with building things and I hope he can help us with our house when we get back from our next mission. I want to do a lot of remodeling and painting. I hope I am as enthusiastic about it as I am about the yard.

I am so far behind in posting pictures I may not get it done before we leave again…

29 June 2008 – Sunday

As I was starting to write this entry, the sun came over the mountains and filled the roomwith light. Another beautiful day in Utah. After being home for over 3 weeks, I am finally sleeping and feeling good. Maybe I have finally acclimatized. The morning rushes by as I take some pictures of the yard, read the SS lesson again, start to clean up the living room because Mary is having the RS presidency over at noon, and catch up posting this journal.

It was a busy day around here. At 11:00 I went to a HP group leadership meeting where we talked about all of our duties, programs, plans, etc. Alton Thygerson is going to be the executive secretary – a first we think for the stake groups – and Howard Campbell will keep minutes, etc. Tom keeps Genealogy and Temple work while I get missionary work. I am going to try to be better at promoting missionary work this time than I was before we went on our mission.

Since it was the 5th Sunday there was an adult combined meeting where the bishopric talked about 3rd Nephi and what it meant to them. They encouraged all members to read 3rd Nephi and ponder what is taught. I thought Nate Tanner made the best presentation as he talked more about the spirit of what he found in 3rd Nephi rather than the words. Before the end of the meeting the new HP Group leadership was sustained and after the meeting we were set apart in the bishop’s office. I felt the spirit as President Jackson set me apart and I tried to remember what he said that made me feel it the most but by the time I got a pen in my hand, I had forgotten. It was something about helping each member of the group use their talents but exactly what I do not know.

We went into the last 20 minutes or so of SS with Jane Poggio teaching again. She did not realize she was supposed to but since no one else had been asked, she bravely stood up and taught. Since I had read the lesson a number of times, I did what I could to help with what I think were good comments and thoughts.

It was a patriotic theme for Sacrament. I usually am not excited about such programs but Sven Wilson gave an excellent talk in which he outlined 5 things that he felt a gospel centered patriotism should exhibit: Equality, Stewardship, Consecration, Humility and Gratitude. I kept notes so I could go back and review these thoughts later.

After the block meeting we went to sister Karen Parkinson’s and made a home teaching visit. Later I went to the Clark Christensen’s and did a rather short HT visit and arranged to do a better one on the second Sunday.

The evening was spent eating dinner, watching some TV, packing for our trip tomorrow, and going to bed early.

It was a good Sabbath day and I often felt the spirit of the meetings and the songs. It is good to be able to fully participate in the meetings. It is one thing that I did miss while in Indonesia. I could feel the spirit there but I could not really become involved in the lessons.

28 June 2008 – Saturday

I spent the first part of the morning getting all the clippings gathered up so when other people arrived we could just load up the truck and drive it to the chipper. The pile just kept growing and growing. I was afraid that it would take 2 or 3 loads to get rid of it all.

Bob showed up with all the kids and while Bob and I cut back all the dead branches on the spruces on the West side of the driveway, they watched TV and played cards with Mary. Brian worked on bringing more of the dead branches up from under the oaks. Lynn Wardle – our home teacher – came with his trailer and Nate Tanner – our next door neighbor – arrived with his truck.

With 6 of us loading up the debris, the work went quickly. We put Lynn’s trailer on the back of Nate’s truck and between the two it only took one trip to the chipper. I was so relieved and it count it as a tender mercy from the Lord that we have such good neighbors and family. Besides this Bob got the sprinklers working so that we do not have to worry about that while we go to Tom’s.

After lunch Bob and his family went home and Brian and Elliott went camping. I continued to work in the yard and got the drive way completely cleaned off – it actually seems strange to have everything so neat and clean. I cleaned up the area just South of the hot tub. It was the last section that needed major work. There are still things that will need to be done, but the really major things are finished. I could sit under the oaks and read and not feel guilty.

I read the SS lesson for tomorrow – Alma 13-16. In fact I read it a couple of times so that I could participate in the lesson. I had earlier read the PH lesson and then remembered that it will be put off for a week because of the change in group leadership tomorrow.

It was a very good day. Lots of work got done, grandchildren came and had a good time, and the gospel was studied. The blessings of the gospel continue to flow to me. It is easy to see the love and concern of my Heavenly Father in my life. Hopefully I can so live that I show my gratitude for these blessings.

27 June 2008 – Friday

I spent the morning working on the Creers and our yard. I had decided to call it quits by 10 so I could get ready for the rest of the day but I got a lot accomplished in just 3 hours.

Mary dropped me off at Out N Back and then went off to do some errands – including going to the library to get some novels on CD so we could listen on our trip to Oregon. Keith and I had a good couple of hours talking mostly about the store and things that needed to be done to get it in shape. Mainly it has to do with the roof and hopefully that will not cost a fortune.

Mary came by and picked me up so we could go have our last meeting with the Rebers. I am starting to worry that we gave them much too much to think about. But they are great people and I do not imagine that much can shake them. I think the most important thing we have done for them is to get them learning to use the computer. They had very little experience before their call.

In the evening we went to a movie and dinner with the Alexanders. It is always a treat to be with them. The movie – Made of Honor – was fun but very predictable. The important thing about the evening was that we shared it with good friends – our best friends.

26 June 2008 – Thursday

I did about 8 hours of hard work today. First I went and worked for a couple of hours at the Creers. Part of that time was spent talking to Cindy Brewer about what was going on with her family – they are going to have a busy summer including her teaching in Austria for a block. They will be back in September.

Back at our house I just kept finding things to do. Mainly I worked under oaks and cleaned off the lower patio so that it can be used. I would work for 90 minutes or so and work up a really good sweat and then come in and drink lots of water and cool off before going back for more. At 3:00 I hit a stopping point and took a long hot bath. When I got out of the bath I realized that my hip was not hurting. I will just be careful with it for the next few days so that I have no problem when we head for Oregon.

After taking a short nap I went to water some of the plants I put in recently. Some of them were rather limp from lack of water in the 90 + degree heat. Mary fixed a great dinner of biscuits and gravy – we like breakfast for dinner.

However the long day of work pretty much took away my ambition for the rest of the evening. I went out under the oaks to read. Lynn Wardle came by to check our phone number and we sat and talked for a while about Indonesia and other things. It was nice to just sit on the bench and enjoy his friendship.

25 June 2008 – Wednesday

Worked at the Creers in the morning. Mainly I cleaned up Morning Glory by the pound. After that I continued working on our yard. Each day I find something new that needs to be done. Some area that needs weeding and pruning. My hip still hurts but as long as I do not try to climb anything, I can work.

In the afternoon we went over to the Rebers and I talked to brother Reber about the programs he will be working on. This morning an e-mail from Elder Subandriyo suggested that brother Reber meet with David Monson from LDS Audio/Video before he leaves for Indonesia. I explained this and the other four or five irons he will have in the fire. While I was doing this Mary introduced sister Reber to some of the members she will be working with. I got to feeling that we were adding to the Rebers’ anxiety so I stopped and told them not to worry that the Lord was in charge and things would work out.

After we left the Rebers we went shopping at CostCo and Albertsons – it is amazing how much we spend when we go shopping. I have come to realize how much more it costs to live here than it does in Indonesia. Mainly because there are more things that we can buy here.

In the evening I talked to Mike and he told me that Tyler was visiting UC Berkeley and Cindy and Krista were in So California so he is a bachelor until next week when they are all going to meet in So. Cal.

 

Some pictures from our yard – The Cabassa tree is in full bloom and so it is covered in white flowers. Unfortunately they will end up on the ground and have to be cleaned up, but the tree is still beautiful. These pink and white roses are in full bloom – they are probably my favorite among the roses.

23 June 2008 – Monday

Stupid, stupid, stupid !  I am talking to myself. On Saturday I did something that caused my left hip to start hurting. I decided I did too much work and my old body was complaining. It was not really bad and it only hurt when I moved wrong or too quickly. It did not really bother me on Sunday so this morning I decided as long as I was careful that it would be fine for me to do some light work in the yard.

I went back up on the North hill and cleaned out a section that I wanted to cover with the new weed protection fabric. I think this is the third layer in this area but this time I am going to use rock instead of bark as the covering. I think this will make it much easier to keep down the weeds. Everything went well until I was finishing up and was moving some rocks back into place. I picked up the last and largest rock and as soon as I did I knew I had made a big mistake as pain shot through my left hip area.  So now I am taking Aleve, some muscle relaxant, and basically sitting around for the day. At least this gave me the time and desire to catch up and post this journal. \

After a very hot bath and some relaxing Mary and I went to Pier 49 for their all you can eat Monday lunch. It was very good and I ate much too much but decided I could drink one of my diet concoctions for dinner. When we were through, Mary dropped me off at the house and then went to meet with the Rebers so show them how to do a report and how to fill out a re-imbursement voucher. She did not need me there for that. She will make an appointment for Wednesday when I will go through the files with brother Reber about the projects Elder Subandriyo had asked us to work on.

In regards to the programs, here is a letter from the Taylors telling about how Elder S spoke to the central youth about the new program for helping young people get into better schools and how well the young people are doing in the HS English class. It really makes me feel good when I read how programs we had a hand in starting are doing so well.

Extract from Elder and Sister Taylor’s letter of June 23, 2008

Friday we had to turn around and go back to Solo ( a 1 ½ to 2 hr. drive) to take our high school English students to a fireside with Elder Subandriyo, our area authority.  We didn’t find out about this and our assignment until very late on Wednesday night.  We had to be gone all day Thursday so we had to give the kids the assignment and let them run with it.  We were assigned to give some kind of musical number.  They ended up singing “Teach Me to Walk in the Light.”   They sang the first verse and then each of them recited one of the first five Articles of Faith, then they sang the second verse and then recited the next five Articles of Faith, then sang the last verse (all in English of course).  Rian, one of the young men accompanied then on the piano.  They did a fantastic job and  we were so proud of them.  Rian also had to bear his testimony in English and Omni, our only girl, had to be the pianist for the whole program.  We have more youth in our English program but only five of them could attend as some were still taking school exams.  They had a fun time in the van laughing and singing.  They were all worried  about having to recite the Articles of Faith so they were practicing all the way.  We just love these kids like our own grandchildren.  The whole fireside was in English.  Elder Subandriyo gave a really motivating and interesting talk about the importance of education.  He also announced a new and exciting program sponsored by the Returned Missionary Fund,  where they will give any student completing grades 9 and 12  with an average score of 8 points or above (B+average) one million rupiah ($100.00) to use for school fees or uniforms.  Those finishing grade 6 with that same score will receive a half million.  This program is to encourage the kids to study hard and get the most out of their education and also to build strong leaders for the future of the church in Indonesia .  This is a tremendous blessing to those who qualify as most of them come from very humble circumstances.  Now the exciting part  …grades came out yesterday and five out of seven possibles qualified for the million rupiah, including Ginsa, the young man who needs desperately to raise 2 more million.  The fun thing was they all scored higher in English than they did in their Indonesia class. And Albert (see below) may qualify now  that he is a member, although he doesn’t know anything about the program yet..

Now the frosting on the cake…. Saturday we had the baptism of Margretta and today we had the baptism of Albert and Tasha, his mother.  Both baptismal services turned out super.  We also had the confirmation of the three of them today.  There was really a wonderful spirit there.  The branch really supported them.  This is really getting the members excited about missionary work.  It is a wonderful privilege to be a small part of this work.  It is so rewarding to see people accept the gospel and change their lives.  Today people were commenting on the actual physical change that has come over these three.  The gospel of Jesus Christ is TRUE and we are so grateful to be able to share this message with the people here in Indonesia .

After a nap, my back was much better. That is I could walk up and down the stairs with little pain. There is hope that by tomorrow I will be able to get in and out of the car without gritting my teeth.

One of the things I did before throwing out my back was to look for the leak in my new/old water feature that I got ready on Saturday. Of course it was almost at the very bottom. I wondered how to fix it when I remembered about Seam Grip which plugs all kinds of holes in inflatables. I found our supply but it had long ago dried up so I gritted my teeth and drove down to Out N Back to get some. Keith has done some good things and it looks like it is well stocked. Unfortunately there did not seem to be enough sales help for the number of customers. I almost started talking to some of the customers to see if I could help.

I just was going through the pictures I took while at the MTC. It seems like that was a long time ago and not just 18 months. So much has happened since then and so many people have touched our lives. We really had no idea of what was ahead for us but the love and friendship that we felt in that small group of couples was great. I did not take enough pictures and I did not write down names – I will not make that mistake the next time.

Even with my being stupid about my hip, it was a good day. It feels good to read the scriptures in Indonesian. Although my hip does hurt, I can still do many things and I am sure it will be better tomorrow. But the best part is the information from Indonesia that says a number of the programs we started are moving forward. The Lord has touched our lives today.

22 June 2008 – Sunday

I received a call last night asking us to meet with President Esplin this morning. Before and after going I worked on my lesson and I can not say that I felt that I had much to talk about. I just never found that spark that would cause the lesson to touch the rest of the group. It turned out I probably worked to hard and should have gone the easy way and kept it simple.

Our meeting with President Esplin was probably the shortest interview for a calling I have ever had. We were already fairly certain what it was going to be and only a detail had to be cleared up. I of course was happy to accept and I hope that in the next 5 months I can do some good. The people I will be working with are old friends and we have served together before.

We read for about 30 minutes from the A&P – it is good to get back into studying Indonesian. Hopefully we will continue doing this even while serving our next mission so that we do not lose what we have gained. After all we never know when we will need to use Indonesian again.

My lesson went about the way I thought it would. I hope someone got something from it – I do think I hit on a good idea but it was only after 95% of the time was over. Sister Poggio did an excellent job on teaching the SS lesson on Alma and Amulek preaching to the people of Ammoniah. She is a lovely sister and always has a smile. It is a shame that Max is so sick and what they can do is so limited.

Sacrament meeting was the YW reporting on their camp experiences. From what they said they had both great fun and some had powerful spiritual experiences. The leaders should get immediate entrance to the Celestial Kingdom for the great work they do. I am not sure I could call any of the young women by name – but then there are times when I have a hard time coming up with the names of our children and grandchildren.

Speaking of that after Sacrament we called Tom and wished him happy 46th birthday. I find it impossible to think that I have a 46 year old son. Where did those years go?

I was delighted to see Matt Shumway for a few minutes after sacrament. He is serving at the MTC in a branch presidency and we talked a little about the experience of serving at the MTC and how it is almost impossible to talk about it with someone who has not served there. He is truly a good and faithful brother. I asked the bishop about getting us signed up for our next mission application and he said it has been done for a week. He did not realize he needed to call us.

Later this evening we both got the paperwork started. All we need is to have our physicals and dental exams done, be interviewed by the bishop and stake president and they can be sent in. I am anxious to know where the Lord needs us this time.

It is still strange to be home and hearing English in church. It is good to see old friends and meet new ones. Today I met the Greens and the Riddles – the Greens almost bought the house next to us that the Tanners bought but were too late so they bought the ‘boat house.’ The Riddles moved into the Wilson house. Last week I met Mike Griffith a new High Priest who is here working at BYU and also working on his doctorate. He is quite young – we are getting a number of younger High Priests it seems – and very friendly. He added much to the lesson today. We will just get to know them fairly well and then leave, but when we come back there will be other new friends to get to know.