1 January 2008 – journal

A new month and a new year. Hello 2008 – may you be as good to us as 2007.

Woke and after a struggle to convince myself that I needed to start the new year right by exercising I went to the gum for 45 minutes and worked up a good sweat. It is still very quiet there in the morning. I imagine that starting tomorrow a lot of folks will come in to try and work off the holiday weight gain.

We are making this our P-day as we are having president Marchant and his family over for dinner. Also Daisy is coming to clean the apartment and then help Mary with her English projects. We read from the Kitab Mormon and then I answered some e-mails from an assortment of people about projects we are in the middle of at this time. Also I caught up the last couple of days of this journal.

We had a relaxed day but it included cleaning out the freezer, doing 3 loads of laundry, and getting ready for company tonight. We managed to read again from the Kitab Mormon and study the PH and RS lesson for next year – it will be interesting to see what they use from the teachings of Joseph in these lessons. Mary and Daisy got all her activity pieces ready for laminating so by Wednesday night we should have everything we need for our first month of classes in Solo.

In the evening President and Sister Marchant and four of their children came over for dinner. Mary had prepared a great meal of chicken, greenbeans – it turned out the President loved greenbeans – baked potatoes, rolls from the Park Hotel, and I made a fruit salad. We had a nice meal and learned a lot about their children. One has just graduated from the BYU-P and is looking for a job. I gave him some ideas about what he might do to find a good one. For dessert we had brownies and ice cream cake. It was much too much food but it worked well.

While he was here, I talked to the President about the Couple’s Conference and we changed the dates of the program to make it so no one needed to fly on Sunday and we could get it done before the President and Sister Marchant had to fly back to Jakarta to meet the new, incoming missionaries. We still do not have where we are going to stay and we need to get that figured out by Monday or Tuesday at the latest.

We talked about the trip to the HK temple in January where all the Indonesian missionaries get their endowments. The Noordas are the senior couple so they will take them. The President said that he would OK us stopping off in HK for two or three days. He said that it is too bad that we would be going in June when it is hot and humid – as he said that we all laughed when we realized that is what it is always in Indonesia. Anyway we will plan to stop off there and go to the temple. If the Kanes have the same travel dates we will ask them to go also.

After the Marchants headed home Mary cleaned up and I washed all the dishes. We then read from the Kitab Mormon before gladly dropping into bed. I will not say it was a very spiritual first day of the month, but we did get a lot done on the HS English class, we continued to read in the scriptures, and we had a nice time visiting with the Marchants.

31 December 2007 – Monday

Up at about 5 and after studying the Indonesian version of next years PH manual I went down and had a really good workout in the gym. For most of it no one else came in so it was like it was my private preserve. We then had a normal morning with reading from the Kitab Mormon.

We went to the office where I worked on writing a number of lessons using the Career Workshop workbook – a time consuming job – and Mary worked on getting pictures ready for laminating. We had Daisy come in to help her and they spent about 5 hours cutting up and pasting pictures for activities. I hope people appreciate the effort but I imagine they have no idea of the time it takes for all of this. I have to wonder how she is going to make the other 6 or 7 sets she needs.

A sister who recently graduated from BYUH came in for some help. We gave her some leads on people to network with and had her sign up on Jobsdb. She has excellent talents, speaks perfect English without any accent, and has a great knowledge of computers programs. She should have no problem getting a job – the problem is her getting a well paying job.

After staying for longer than usual office hours, we came home and spent a very quiet New Years together. We read from the Kitab Mormon and have caught up with the last time through. We hardly ever look up a word – sometimes we really should – and are usually able to figure out what unfamiliar words means. We still have trouble with when something happens and to whom. This happens when we hurry through our translation. If we stop and really try to figure what is being said out, we can more often than not get it right.

I continue to try and read the new PH manual in Indonesian. I will be humming right along and then hit three or four words in a row I do not know. I am trying to get them all into my vocabulary book so I can review them each day.

30 December 2007 – Sunday

Read from Kitab Mormon – Alma 49 – 2000 stripling warriors join the fight for freedom. Sam drops us off at Jakarta Raya and we meet and greet with the missionaries. Mary was able to take pictures of three families.

Sacrament meeting was about Goals and how to correctly fill out a tithing form. I guess this was a major problem because the president took about 15 minutes to go through line by line. We then went to Gospel Principles – they did not have any investigators but Marie Sanders and Rudi were there so they could hold the class. It was about the Priesthood and elder Erickson taught it without reading at all from the manual. We ended up going through the ordained PH offices and we decided that branch president was not an ordained office like bishop. Since it was the fifth Sunday PH and RS met together and they had a lesson on family preparedness. It seemed well done except the teacher lectured for 90% of the time – the 20%-80% rule just does not seem to be part of the culture.

It was good to see Johann Salim and president Kencana’s son. Johann is heading back to Taipai to learn more CadCam – we talked about how it would have been better if he had learned this at BYU Hawaii and not just IT…He agreed.

After church we caught a cab to the Selatan chapel where we ran into the Walkers and the Marchants – also elder Subandriyo. President Marchant and I talked about the question of giving keys to District and Branch Presidents. He is still not convinced that he should but will ask in May when he goes to training in Hong Kong.

I talked to the three seminary students who showed up for class today about the trial class English class we are going to start on the 12th. They decided they would like to have it before Seminary and so we will hold it at 1:00 p.m. This should be a challenge because we will also have an Intensive English class going on at that time. It does not seem like we are going to have to worry much about what we will be doing for the rest of our mission. One thing I did learn is that they know a lot more English than they let on – they could understand what I was saying as long as I talked slowly. They seem like very smart young people. I invited elder Subandriyo to come to our first Intensive English class on Tuesday the 8th and the first HS English class on the 12th – he said he would be happy to.

When I got back to the office there was a member who wanted to talk to me. It turned out he wanted to join the Intensive English Class. I could not let him because first he was too old, second the class was already full, and third his English was not good enough – I had to have an interpreter help with the interview. But I told him we would be happy to work with him on a one to one basis on four days a week and he seemed happy with that. We then closed up the office and had Sam drive us back to the apartment.

We spent the rest of the day as we usually do on Sunday. Getting a good nap, working on English, reading from the Kitab Mormon, and watching some TV. I also took care of another project that elder Subandriyo asked me to handle- at least I started to work on it.

29 December 2007 – Saturday

Morning of going to the gym and reading from the Kitab Mormon.

We go to the office where I work on a couple of lessons about the Career Workshop and Mary does more on activities. We are down to less than a week before we have to have some kind of a lesson plan that will take up 16 to 20 hours – we need to have at least a month’s lessons which we can give to the Roberts and the Barnards. We arranged for Daisy to come on Monday and help Mary get some of the game pieces ready. I think we will use her for other things also.

There is a lot of activity in the building because there is a graduation program for Institute. We have a chance to talk to brother Tandiman for a while about the program and about scholarships. I later talk to president Bob and any students who might need a scholarship to go to high school or the university. He is going to look at his branch and get back to me. I see no reason why we should not use brother Limbong’s offer to help our young people find jobs and careers.

After office hours we caught a taxi back to the apartment so we could grab a little rest before going to the party at the Limbongs. We were the first ones there – as usual we could only guess how long it would take to get there. Soon the rest of the missionaries arrived including the Kanes and the Walkers. The Marchants and their children also came but much later. We had a nice meal – the sate was a little more spicy this time – and a good talk with the Kanes. Brother Limbong asked each missionary to tell a little about themselves and share a special experience that they had in Indonesia. Also he asked them to sing a song. The Kanes and I sang a quartet and this led to the young missionaries to sing as a group – making things a lot shorter than if each companionship had done one. The one interesting thing I learned was that Elder Morano only joined the church about 18 months ago after being introduced to it by a friend.

The party broke up at about 8:00 and we gave the sisters a ride home. We had a good time talking to the sisters – they are a great pair of missionaries. They are always up, full of energy, and have a positive attitude.

As an aside, we received copies of the new lesson manual for PH and RS – The teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith. It is a two year manual and that means it is rather thick and heavy – especially in Indonesian because it is about 100 pages longer. It is going to be a challenge to take both languages to church. I started to read it in Indonesian and found that I had to look up about 10% of the words. The missionaries say that the manuals are written in medium difficult Indonesian…I hate to even consider what really difficult might be like. What is encouraging is that I can figure out some words because I know the root and also because of context. My guess is that I know more of the language than I think I do but I am afraid to use it. Mary remembers much more than I do…but she always has.

A mission is a great growing experience. It has not been anything like what I expected and in talking to Elder Kane tonight he said the same thing. That each day is an adventure and a learning experience that goes beyond that which we considered when we put in our papers.