Monthly Archives: September 2009

Let us go down…

These pictures are from the upgraded Hubble telescope…how great are the works of the Lord.

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09 September 2009

09 September 2009 – Wednesday

What a difference a day makes – 24 little hours. Where yesterday was bright and clear, this morning it is gray and overcast. Later we ran into rain and so my beautiful clean car is now not so beautiful and clean.

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I was trying to get a picture of a construction truck that we have ended up following a number of times. We can tell it from other trucks because of the way the sign on the back is bent – unfortunately I missed the shot. But then it probably is not very safe to take pictures while driving – even at a stop sign. The big, black bird with the white head and white underwings surprised us when it flew down and started eating some road kill – we did not realize it did that since we always see it near water and figured it ate bugs and such. I guess you get your food where you can find it.

We were up and out of the house fairly early as we needed to go to Port Durnford and picky up sister Chirwa to take her to the clinic in Richards Bay. My selfish side thought that we should have just given her transportation money and we could have spent more time at home this morning. But as we drove to Port Durnford to pick her up and then back to the clinic, I felt that we were doing what we should be doing. She told us about how she and Thandi Nzama had visited a sister on Sunday who had not been coming to church and she said she would come next Sunday. She told us about another sister who is very ill and needs to go to hospital. She also told us about how her leg hurt and so walking was hard for her.

She had to go to the clinic because she is trying to get a government disability pension and they are making her go to a number of doctors. They have managed to drag this on for over a year and she still does not have her pension.

We dropped her off and told her we would call her when we were going to leave for DDM and if she was done we would take her back to the taxi stand in Esikhawini. When we called about two hours later she was still at the clinic patiently waiting for her turn. They are used to waiting for medical help – usually for 4 to 7 hours.

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Everyone sings at DDM – it is good to see Sister B feeling well. On right – our fearless District Leader Elder Babeeyo.

DDM was a little long but there was some excellent information shared. Elder Musemare gave a good talk, they sat district goals. I suggested that they extend the one week of obeying exactly that President Mann asked for to the full cycle and see how the Lord blesses them. They thought this was a good idea and adopted it.

The Bartholomews came and sister B looked and felt great. The only problem was that she has a very nasty tick bite on her neck and so now she has to wait for 8 – 10 days to see if she gets the fever. We are hoping that there is so many antibiotics in her system that she will be OK. She thinks she got the bite while in Durban but that the tick had got into her luggage when we were in Tembe a couple of weeks ago. She certainly does not need any more illness.

After the meeting we left the elders and the B’s eating pizza and we went to the mall to have lunch at Spurs. When we were finished eating, I was not feeling good at all so I suggested we call President Machaka and tell him we would not be there for PEC meeting so I could take a nap before we went to visit with President Malinga. I gave him what I needed to talk about over the phone.

I had a good nap and while I did not feel 100% I felt well enough to go to our meeting. We were about 75% of the way to Esikhawini when we got a message from President Malinga saying he would not be back in time. When we called he said it could be hours so we found a place to turn around and headed back.

After a quick visit to Meernsee to check out the art store there to see if we could get some supplies for Bungumuse to paint some things for us, we went to the Richards Bay chapel where I made some copies of articles out of the May Ensign that I want to give to people. While we were there I looked through what they had in the library and came across some World Wide Leadership Training manuals from 2001-03 that had just the information that I thought the branch presidents needed to be trained on.

I mentioned to Mary that if our copier had not stopped working and if we had met with President Malinga, I probably would not have found these materials. Now tomorrow when we meet with him we will be able to give him more training to help him in his calling.

I managed to index 125 names this evening. I am trying hard to average 50 a day because that means in a year I will have done about 18,000. I also read some of the WW Leadership material I picked up earlier and it is interesting how the format changed from single talks to interactive talks between two and three of the 12 to role playing. Rather going from lectures to demonstrations. I think the talks work best in the written form while of course the demonstrations work well either live or by DVD.

Another 1 ½ mite day for me.



08 September 2009

08 September 2009 – Tuesday

Woke to a beautiful morning in Richards Bay. Our car was filthy so I took it to the car wash early to avoid waiting in line. I was the first one there and opened the wash. While they are washing the car I stay inside so when it comes time to move it to the detail area I am ready. This also gives me the opportunity to read from the scriptures or Ensign for 20 – 25 minutes.

Today I took the May Ensign and continued to re-read the conference talks. As usual each talk that I read was special and I learned more. I am going to copy President Monson’s talk “Be of Good Cheer” and give it to Ayanda Mlondo because it talks about loosing love ones and how knowing the gospel makes this less tragic.

Elder Bednar and Elder Stevenson’s talks were for me. From Elder Bednar –

“There is a difference between church-attending, tithe-paying members who occasionally rush into the temple to go through a session and those members who faithfully and consistently worship in the temple.”

Even though I have served in the Provo temple for years, I am afraid I am still one of those who ‘rush into the temple.’ Of course we are now far from the Joburg temple and will probably only get to go one or two times while on our mission, but when we get home hopefully I will remember Elder Bednar’s comment and establish a regular time to go to the temple. But just as important is preparing to fully participate in the session and not just making it through. Elder Bednar points out it should be temple service not just going getting it out of the way.

Elder Stevenson’s talk was comparing our home with the temple. He said:

“Not only can we turn the doors of our homes to the temple, or the house of the Lord; we can make our homes a “house of the Lord,”

So not only does our car now look bright and shiny but also I have been taught once again by the special men and women who have been called to guide the church in these days.

When I got home I spent way too much time working on the pictures Mary and I took over the last few days – especially those we took yesterday in Imfolozi. It takes time to download, caption, and edit 60 – 70 pictures. But I got it done, caught up my journal, and am getting ready to head to Esikhawini.

When the meeting we had planned fell through we decided to explore Esikhawini and see what the Hafen’s had marked in the GPS. So we turned it on and got out the maps. We then drove through the town and stopped at each member’s home we came across. Some were on the GPS and some were not. We also found some people had moved and some were away to school. The experience was made more interesting by the fact that most roads do not go through to ad adjacent areas so you have to go out to the main road and enter at a different point.

We had lunch at the KFC and the traffic guard pointed out that our license plate was falling off. I checked it certainly was. It turns out they put them on using double-sided foam tape. I imagine the regular washing caused some of the strips to come lose.

We also stopped by the Esikhawini chapel where we found elders Musemare and Mokopotsa doing service by cleaning up a garden plot. Actually elder Musemare was doing most of the work as elder Mokopotsa said he was not a gardener.

We toured all of H section and decided we would do J section on Friday. In between time we hope to get new copies of the city map that we have been using so we can mark it more clearly with where the members live, the names and phone numbers.

We then headed to Meernsee to run some errands. We checked the mail and found we actually got some mail from home – Olivia sent us pictures she had colored of us as missionaries. This was the first mail we got from home and we loved it. We ended up managing to do everything we had planned except we did not make it to the city offices in time to see if we could get new maps. They close at 3:00 and we got there at 3:10. So we have at least one more thing to do tomorrow. I also ran into the Barts in the mall – something that has not happened lately. They were coming for a late lunch and I was just leaving after getting some money from a ATM. Sister B seems to be feeling better and that is great.

Once we got back to our boarding it was a normal evening of reading, writing, indexing – I am trying to do one batch a day – and working on a new puzzle Mary started.

For some reason as I was reflecting again on what I had read this morning, I came to the conclusion that charity – the pure love of Christ – has no room for selfishness. I thought of elder Koelliker’s comment that Christ’s work and glory was to do God’s will. This seems to me to mean that Christ goal was to never put himself and his will first. That does not mean that he could not enjoy life – in fact it meant that he could enjoy life to the fullest. Obeying God’s will is the only way we can truly get the most out of life. Each time we put our own will and our own self first, we take away from the fullness of joy that we could have had.

I think this could count as a 1 ¾ mite day.



07 September 2009

07 September 2009 – Monday

A p-day that was spent driving over 300 kilometers, visiting two game parks, missing a turn so we went about 100 kilometers out of our way, and being detoured off the toll road because of an accident so we went another 20 kilometers out of our way. But it was all fun and other than being tired of driving, it was an excellent p-day.

When we got back to our boarding we just relaxed, read, did indexing – Ohio is easier than Wisconsin – and went to bed rather early. Mary called Cindy and wished her happy birthday. Since they talked a long time last night, they did not have a lot more to say tonight.

They say pictures are worth a thousand words so here are a few thousand words about the day.

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We went to the left and entered the Imfolozi side of the park. We are getting pretty good at spotting game so when we saw this spot in the shade of a tree a few hundred yards away we got out our binoculars and found this Rhino enjoying a rest from the heat of the sun.

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Impalas are everywhere and I seldom take pictures of them, but Mary does and here are three good examples of what we saw yesterday only they were in groups of up to 30 animals.

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We usually also see lots of nyalas but this time we only saw this one male. However he was a good looking one and was happy to pose. We figure this tree was supposed to be on the other side of the world – here it is just upside down. I wonder which way birds sit on the branches.

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We saw lots of giraffes today. I like the way we caught this one picking the leaves off one at a time. We see a lot of the backs of animals. Mary took a number of pictures of these two giraffes and was finally rewarded with one at least turning its head.

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We came across a large family of baboons eating leaves. They pick them off one at a time so they keep busy. They were on both sides of the road and the middle guy just sat and stared at me as I stared at him. I wanted to take a picture of the back end of one but Mary said it was gross. So giraffe behinds are OK – baboons are gross.

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We actually came across these two large rhinos lounging in a mud pile before we saw the one above resting in the shade. One of them was nice enough to get up and pose for us – the other one could have cared less. They were about 20 yards away from the car.

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As we drove out of a camp area, we came across these two wildebeests on one side of the road and the zebras right across from them on the other side. It was almost like they were placed there so the tourists would have something to look at up close and personal.

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We were happy when we got to this direction sign because it meant we were less then 5 kilometers from the gate. Along the way to the gate we came across this signed that warned us that there might be water in the upcoming dip. But it is pretty much dry season so there was not and we were just as happy. After we left Imfolozi we came across this wild animal standing in the middle of the road – it felt like we were back in Swaziland.

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After leaving Imfolozi we had a nice drive to Ophathe Game Reserve and went in to see what was there. We found out that most of the Reserve can only be seen in a 4×4 vehicle. But we drove around on some nasty gravel roads and ate our lunch – rusks and drinks – while looking at this waterhole. Nice view and there was a herd of impalas feeding in the trees nearby but nothing came to drink. This is a huge reserve and has both black and while rhinos so we might rent a 4×4 and come back to see if we can finally see a black rhino up close. It has a beautiful reception center with a number of people on duty but it does not seem to be a very popular place for visitors. When Mary signed us in on the 7th the last group before us went through on the 3rd.



06 September 2009

06 September 2009 – Sunday

Up and out by 7:00 so we can pick up Presidents Nyawo and Nkosi for PEC meeting. After PEC we headed to Port Durnford for the regular meetings. There were not a lot of people at the meeting because some were working and some were recovering from the funeral. I really felt some of the testimonies – especially President Zondi’s as he talked about those who were not at the meeting and how we need to love them back. After sacrament the members kind of mill around but we got them organized. Mary taught Primary and YW mixed, Elder Richey pretty much taught Young Men, and I taught a combined men and women’s class.

I asked them what was the biggest problem in the branch and they almost simultaneously said that it was the less active. So we sat and talked about what each of them might do to help get one person who was not at church today here next Sunday. Each of them had good ideas and are committed to trying to love the inactive back to church. It will be interesting to see  how it works out. We will not be able to beat PD on Sunday but I will ask Elder Richey who comes.

After the meetings we took Thandi Nzama and her children as well as sister Chirwa to see gogo Nzama. She is looking much better and has started to eat again. I think she will be back in health by next weekend. After that we drove Thandi and sister Chirwa to sister Joyce’s road so they could visit her and see why she has not been coming to church. So they got started on re-activation right away.

While we were at the Nzama’s I found that one of our front tires looked very low, so we decided we better get some air in it. There is only one petrol station in Esikhawini and luckily we know where it is. We went there and got some fuel – I know it was Sunday but I hate to take free air and not give them some business. I have the same problem using a restaurant or fast food place’s toilet without buying something. Anyway we filled up the tank but by the time we had finished there were four or five cars lined up to get air in their tires.

Since we had actually been at the station the longest, I got out and started talking to the men who were using the air hose. We talked about a number of things including the US. After they had finished with their tires, they did mine and so we did not have to wait for everyone else.

We arrived at Esikhawini just before they let out of the last meeting. I was excited to see brother Mavundla at church. I made it a point to go over and talk to him and tell him that. I hope that our talk a couple of weeks ago helped him decide to come.

I talked to president Nyawo and president Thusi for a short time. I think they had been talking about holding Presidency meeting. I certainly hope so. While Mary taught her piano class – only two of her students come almost every week – I helped lock up the buildings. We once again ended up the last folks to leave and so I end up locking the gates as we left.

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The rest of the day was spent at our boarding eating, napping, studying, indexing and checking in to see how our family was doing. Taylor and Spencer had engagement/wedding invitation pictures taken. They are a good looking couple.



05 September 2009

05 September 2009 – Saturday

This was kind of an extra P-day for us that the Barts. We had our usual morning except the Rawlings had to leave to go to see a track meet that was about 2 hours away. Grace left a nice breakfast for us and we ate early before the Bs were ready. After breakfast we finished packing and then loaded the car – and we really did load it – so we could leave to meet the Sessions at the Essenwood Saturday Market.

When we arrived it reminded me of any of the many craft markets we have seen around. The one it reminded me most of was the Berkley market. I would bet that some of the same African masks are sold there as we saw spread out in this park.

There was not much we really felt a need to buy but we did end up with some things we liked. Some we will keep at home and some we will give to family and friends. I guess all told we managed to burn through $100 US by the time we were done.

The one funny part of the experience happened when I was bargaining with a young vendor over a shadowbox that had carvings of the Big Five. He started at R220 but quickly went down to R200. About that time Elder B walked up and asked me what I was doing and I said that I was trying to decide if I wanted to pay the R175 that the salesman had offered to sell it to me for. The look on the young man’s face was one of shock – of course he had not offered that price at all but he did not want to lose the sale. So he offered it for R190 and I said OK and paid him the R200 he had offered earlier. He was very surprised and thanked me. I told him it was too bad that he did not take the R175 price because if he had I would have given him the original R220 asking price.

After everyone had had their fill of shopping we went looking for a place to eat. The Mexican restaurant we wanted to go to had failed and was being re-modeled. The steak house we next chose did not open until 6 on Saturdays for dinner. We ended up across the street at a place that had lots of customers. The food was pretty good – nothing special but at it was filling and the company was great.

Once lunch and the visiting was finished we said goodbye once more – the Bs and the Sessions have become very good friends – before getting into our cars and heading home. I managed to doze through much of the trip home – I am glad that Elder B prefers to drive. There was more talk about the branches, what we might do if no couples come to take the Bs place, etc.

There has been no indication that any couples are coming to Durban and of course the first one will become the mission office couple. President Mann just could not function without one. Hopefully there will be two by the end of October and one couple will come here to Richards Bay. If not we will just have to do our best and seek a lot of help from the Lord.

When we got home, unloaded everything, and said goodbye to the Bs we realized that there were a few things we really needed from the store so I almost immediately hopped in the car and headed out. One important thing was air freshener – luckily the dead mouse smell had pretty much disappeared from the bed room but we wanted something to take out the last of the lingering smells. We have no idea where the mouse actually died but some day in a drawer or under something the dried remains will show up. Mary is far from thrilled with that idea.



04 September 2009

04 September 2009 – Friday

We woke at our usual 6:00 am and leisurely got ready for the day before eating a delicious breakfast with the Bartholomews.

Zone conferences are mainly for the young missionaries but couples always learn something important.

Today’s conference started with President Mann showing some charts about the missions in the area that showed that our mission was behind the other missions in baptisms. He then told how Elder Koelliker’s comment about President Hinckley’s challenge to double the number of baptisms at first seemed like just a call to increase baptisms and besides he is not into setting number goals for baptisms because it can lead to baptizing every 14 year old girl or boy in South Africa. But then one morning he woke up at 4:00 and was told that it really needed to be done. He once again kind of brushed it away. The next morning at 4:00 the same message came to him and he finally got the message that the South Africa, Durban mission needed to do something to increase conversions.

I noticed that the statistics show that the mission holds its own for finding and progressing investigators, What it does not do well is get them into the waters of baptisms. I wrote in my notebook that we are as good as any other mission in the area for getting men on base and advancing them to second and third, but we do not do well in RBIs.

President Mann of course knew this and that is why the conference focused mainly on the Conversion process. The missionaries were introduced to a number of new tools to help them better plan for teaching each investigator. They had a couple of exercises  to show them how to use the new planners.

The highlight for me was when Elder Weaver – that is Elder Peterson’s new companion – told about the experience he recently had where for the first time he felt the spirit as he taught the gospel and wonderful it felt. He said it came because he had started to live the missionary rules that included waking on time, personal study, etc. He said that he had started to do that because Elder Hoosier as District Leader had asked the district to start doing it. Now Elder Weaver is not a new missionary so he has had many opportunities to teach, but he had been selling the gospel instead doing missionary work. It was a moving testimony and I am sure everyone felt the spirit. It brought tears to my eyes.

Later I spoke Elder Peterson about the experience and he added a detail that made it even a better spiritual story. Because Elder Peterson is the DL for Richards Bay they were supposed to come down to Durban on Thursday night so they could be here for a 7:30 meeting and so they would have had to cancel the appointment that Elder Weaver testified about. But the companionship felt strongly that they needed to keep the appointment so they called and got permission for them to stay in RB for the night and then get up at 4:30 am to make sure they were at the 7:30 meeting. They agreed to do that and went to their appointment and the rest just followed. How wonderful it is when we let the spirit guide us even when it means getting up at 4:30 am.

The president went through the mission equation of Faith + Exact Obedience + Hard Work = Miracles. He asked each of the missionaries to be exactly obedient to the white handbook for one week.

After Zone Conference the couples, including the Manns went to the mall and had a nice lunch. We found that the Johnsons had been officially changed to be the new mission office couple and are being trained by the Sessions. As we sat there it was realized that this would be the last time the five couples would be together. The Sessions leave before the next Zone conference which will be held in Richards Bay instead of Durban, a month later the Barts will leave, and then in January the Johnsons will leave.  When the next couples conference is held in February, we will be the only couple still serving.

After the late lunch we went back to our B&B and spent the rest of the day reviewing what we learned and relaxing. For dinner we ate some rusks and hot chocolate. Later the Rawlings went to the stake musical night and so the two couples sat around the living room just talking about family, mission experience, and life in general. It was a good evening as we got to know each other more and could share some of the joys and sad events of our lives. It is interesting that two couples who live within 30 minutes of each other in Utah, got to share an evening together some 10,000 miles from our homes. Missions are really great experiences.

It was a spiritual 2 mite day.



03 September 2009

03 September 2009 – Thursday

I slept well but when I woke up I found that Mary had not and so she had got up and starting packing for our trip to Durban. My morning was filled with packing, getting a load of laundry started, ironing some shirts, and posting to our blog. It is good to be up to date in the blog – at least with the text. When journal writing becomes a chore it is hard to do. I just got back from a quick trip to the mall where I got some cash from the ATM and bought a paper for Mary.

The B’s picked us up and we headed off to Durban. We stopped at Ballito – a very nice town on the coast – and had a nice relaxed lunch and looked around a couple of shopping centers. They have lots of stores and getting many more. This is a very well to do place to live and visit.

As usual we stopped in at the mission office where I bought PMG for Esikhawini YM and we had a good time visiting with the Sessions, Manns, and of course the elders. I got a great shot of Elder Lemmon hiding under the desk to avoid doing something.

We then went to Little Haven where we settled in to our familiar room garden room and basically lounged around the rest of the day. Grace fixed us a nice dinner which the couples ate with her and her husband Vic. We went to bed early so we would be rested for the Zone Conference tomorrow.



02 September 2009

02 September 2009 – Wednesday

Slept well and had one of those mornings when time just flew by. Part of this was because I spent over an hour working on putting pictures into my blog/journal. I should get a week worth of pictures behind because it gets boring catching up. If I do it every day or at least every other day it is not bad at all.

(It is just a little after 9 pm and I sat down to write in this journal but my mind went blank, I yawned and decided that it will just have to wait until tomorrow to be written.)

Although I could not reach him by phone to make sure he was home, we headed for Esikhawini to have a short meeting with President Malinga. We were lucky and he was in so we talked for just 15 minutes or less and then left. I am hoping that my encouragement to have Presidency Meetings and do his home teaching will bear fruit so that the branch will move forward and become united.

We went to KFC for some lunch – amazingly the elders were not there – before going to the chapel to make plans for visiting some of the members. We got out our maps and directories and tried to find each member that was in H section. After spending some time on this, we decided to go see sister Mathe and ask her to help us identify where members lived. We had a nice visit with her and found that at least one of the members on the directory had moved to Petoria.

I felt that I should call sister Happy and find out how she was doing. She had not returned a prior call and when she did not answer my call I thought she might be ignoring me but almost as soon as I hung up she called back and we made arrangements to meet her at the crèche where she works.

We had some problems with our GPS and ended up wandering around the settlement on dirt and sand roads for quite awhile. After giving up and starting back to the main road, I saw that we were driving past her old house and knew that the crèche was nearby and it was. I count it as a tender mercy that after being lost, we were found.

We got a tour of the crèche – it needs work – and then took her home. That was an adventure as she lives deeper in the settlement on a sand road that at times caused the car to slow way down. I would not want to go that way after a rain. I went in to say hello to Patrick and then we left to meet with President Machaka for his version of a PEC meeting. We left from there to go Port Durnford for Youth. We ended up with just two youth, Quinton, and later the missionaries. We held a shortened version playing Book of Mormon Bingo.

We had to stop at the mall so Mary could go to the pharmacy and get her prescription. We had gone earlier in the day but the line was out the door. This time she was through in less than a half hour. I would really like to own that pharmacy – it must be a cash cow.

Me evening was spent reading, indexing more of the 1920 Chicago census, and checking things out on the computer. The news came that there had been a strong quake on Java that killed a number of people. They said it was near Jakarta but it turned out to be the other side of Bandung. As far as I could find out only one or two members live in the area, but I am sure by now Elder Subandriyo has received the OK to do some humanitarian work there.

As mentioned above I was very tired – maybe because of the hot, humid weather? – and so went off to bed early. I had no problem going right to sleep at the end of a 1 ¾ mite day.



01 September 2009

01 September 2009 – Tuesday

September started with a rather gray overcast morning but as the sun took control, the mist was burned off. I was up earlier than I liked, but at least it gave me time to accomplish a number of things that needed doing. One thing that did not get accomplished was getting the car washed – it was closed when I got there at 7:00. So the car washing got moved to tomorrow.

This gave me an extra hour to work on some ideas and charts that will hopefully help President Malinga accomplish some things he would like to see done in the branch. Since a couple of families got Home Teaching visits last month, it has at least started and perhaps this month they can get up to 50 – 60%. That will be a great improvement for the branch.

I also spent some time reading Conference talks. I re-read President Monson’s talk at the Priesthood session and this time it made a greater impression on me. Here a prophet of God gave clear instructions on how to improve my physical and spiritual life. I just need to do them to receive the promised blessings.

We attended Zone Development Meeting where the elders had a good discussion about how to improve their planning, finding, converting and retention skills. They shared many thoughts and experiences. There is vast amount of knowledge in any zone and it is good when they have an opportunity to talk together. We stopped and had lunch and cashed a check at the bank before going out to Port Durnford. The line at the bank was very long but they did what they could to speed things along. However when it comes to cashing a check it takes at least 10-15 minutes after you get to the teller. I think 2 or 3 people have to approve each check before the teller can finally give out the money.

At Port Durnford we visited the Nzama family and was happy to see gogo Nzama up and looking good. However she still is not eating properly and so she had to go the hospital to get pumped up. As we were driving out we stopped at the other Nzama boarding and met the Nzama matriarch who was sitting under the tree weaving mats to sell. She has been doing this for many years. It use to take her 3 weeks to make a mat, but a number of years ago she got a simple frame that cut the time to 3 days. She is working towards getting enough block to build a traditional round house. She must be at least 85 and possibly older – I will ask the next time we are there.

 Our next stop was the Malondo homestead to tell them we would not be at the funeral on Saturday due to being in Durban. We did give them a card with a donation toward the cost of the funeral. The men – including Siya – were out cleaning up the front yard so there would be places for people to park. They will get a large tent to hold the funeral. I think President Machaka will conduct but I am not sure. We gave Ayanda a letter from the Hafens and a card from us. She seems to be holding up well, as does Doreen’s mother.

Before heading home, we stopped by the Zondi homestead to see if David had found a price for a large load of manure, but he was at work. I do not think we will ever come to know one brother from the next. They all look almost exactly the same. It is embarrassing to both of us but I think Mary more so than me because she can usually remember people’s names.

By the time we wove our way home, for some reason I was very tired. I think the lack of exercise and my increasing age is starting to catch up with me. I can not do much about the latter, but I certainly can about the former.

I spent part of the night Indexing the 1920 Ohio census. The handwriting is quite good and it is nice to go through a batch and only have one or two names I am not sure are correct. I feel that if I make a mistake, some family member might have to wait for the millennium before getting their temple work done.

***As I am typing this Mary is in making copies for her English class. She seems to be having problems because she is talking to the copy machine as if it was alive and could understand her complaints.